Hunch from honesty

My parents thought me to be honest always, no matter what. It’s like a hunch, especially on virtual…. but I like that my hunch, and I wont replace it with colourful wings of lies just to attract people.

It’s not easy to be honest always in world full of lies, and illusions. If you are honest and sincere, you’ll be taken by many people as a fool. They will try to cheat you, use you, and, in the best case, they will call you dull with your honesty and sincerity.  What’s funny in honesty? Nothing. But people on virtual are looking mostly for fun. Especially, if their real life is not funny at all.

People are running from real problems into virtual, into imaginary world, because here they can find all, what they are looking for. Mean cartoon heroes, and characters, perfect people, and perfect relationships.  And all is fine as long as they can see the difference between reality and illusions. And as long they don’t hurt others.

It’s easier and farther to get something by giving people, what they want to get.  By satisfying their needs with temptations and fake promises of heaven on the Earth. It’s like the trick well-known in marketing. It’s about selling the most useless thing, by convincing people, that it’s exactly, what they need, and they can’t live without.

I don’t agree with people, who say, that all is fair in love. I don’t agree, that if we want to get love we will can lie, cheat, and play. I don’t want to get feeling built on so cheap base. Not only because it will become ruin, like castles built on the sand, when the truth will be uncovered. I don’t want to get feelings by cheating, because it wont have real value for me.  Besides how long we can live in a lie?

Only real things have real value for me. To get them, I have to be real also.  If somebody really loves me, he will accept me as I am. With all my imperfections. Only such love has a chance to last for ever.

Real warm hug is worth much more, than imaginary ecstasy. At least for me.