Remember always, who you are, no matter what

Probably everybody from us met in life some toxic person, who was trying to bring you down, to make them selves feel better. They are concerned on spoiling others life instead of making their own life better.  They are trying to make you feel bad, to make you feel worthless. Don’t let them! Remember, that if somebody is so much obsessed with making you feel worse, than you are in real, it’ll means, that you are much better, than you think. Find your talents, your abilities, remember who you were before that toxic person appeared in your life, and don’t let them to change you in person, who that sick person wish to see.

I met in my work victims of domestic violence. It was common almost to all their persecutors, that for neighbors, and even for  members of families of their victims they seemed to be utterely nice people. Their victims were mostly blamed by neighbors, members of family, friends, for being guilty.

You can imagine how victims of domestic violence felt, not having support anywhere.  Very often it was difficult to prove, that they were persecuted, because their persecutors knew, how to beat them to not leave signs, and how to destroy their victims psychics to than accuse them for being mentally sick to nobody believe them. And finally people could think, that persecutors were just utterly good people, who cared so much for their partners and their mental health, that they were angels, who had to live with evil people, who were accusing them for things, which they never did.

I was helping victims of domestic violence to get back self-esteem, to stand up with head high, to remember who they really are, to deprive their persecutors power over them.  There was some woman, who was suffering about 20 years. But she is free now. She is smiling again, and she seems to be finally happy in life. I was one from people, who helped her to be happy. And I’m proud of that.

Since childhood I was fighting with every kind of injustice. I was thinking about opening my own foundation to help people who are victims of injustice. It’s my dream. Maybe some day it’ll become true.

So once again…

You are you! You can’t stop being you, just because somebody says, that you are somebody else.

You are the master of your life

You are the master of your life. You are the one, who should make decisions and choices. People are going in and out from your life. You are there all the time, since the birth to the death,  so make it the best you can.

You are the one, who can make your life heaven or hell. Don’t let anybody to make you only an actor in  your own life, and to make you taking only the role in somebody else’s play.