Be wiser not bitter
No matter, how much you’ve been hurt, you should step into new relationship wiser not bitter. It can take a time to trust somebody new, but you can’t blame them for somebody else’s sins.
Everybody is different, and most of them deserve a chance. But don’t stay in relationship with somebody, who tries to bring you down, no matter reason, who has no respect for you, and your feelings. They need therapy, but you don’t have to be their doctor.
You deserve to be happy the same as your partner. It should be balance between giving and taking. Be sure, that when you say “yes” to others, you don’t say “no” to yourself.
Posted on May 13, 2012, in I couldn't say it better, My Blogs and tagged learning, life, love, moving on, people, positive attitude, positive thinking, possitive energy, relationships, self-knowledge and self-acceptance, woman and man. Bookmark the permalink. 51 Comments.
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This sort of thing happen a lot. One person breaks their trust in a particular area, and they will not let go of it to trust someone else in that area…as if they did to them in the first place…not right, nor fair.
Hugs xx
Yes, you are right. We should treat everybody individually.
Hugs,
xx
As long as the balance is right and
I hope your weekend
the feelings are good then all should
be very nice
was a wicked one Sabina
Androgoth XXx
Yes, thnak you
Have a wonderful week Andro
I have to go out for a couple of hours. See you later
XXx
Have a lovely morning Sabina
Androgoth XXx
Thank you Andro
I was out till now. I just came back home.
Have a nice rest of the day Andro
XXx
I totally agree. Let past relationships, particularly the painful ones be 100% past. We can learn from it but should not dwell on it. There are a lot of wonderful things that awaits in the future, including new beginnings and realtionships. Great post!
Thank you IT
Ya, there are a lot of wonderful things that awaits for us
-podobno ile dajesz tyle dostajesz-nie wiem .
Tych madrości życiowych można tu wpisać dużo,ale po co kazdy z nas jest inny…..
Dobrze by było, gdybyśmy mogli dostawać tyle samo, ile dajemy… Niestety niektórzy potrafią tylko brać. Pewnie słyszałaś o typach psychologicznych dawcy i biorcy?
Miłej reszty dnia
Nicely said
Thank you MC
You’re welcome!
Insert huge smile
Insert huge smile
double smile
Triple super duper smile to infinity! LOL
hehehehe
I’m glad, that you are in good mood
I’m in a fairly decent mood today. At least till I get to work and the piles close in on me
I’m going to work soon… ah
Well! I decide every day that I”m going to do my best and that’s all I can do… and I try hard. It really is all I can do.
I know, that you try your best. Me too.
AMEN!
Amen
The scars would take us a long way too… isnt it??
I’m glad to see you here Aneesh
Its good to be here
… nice post 
Thank you Aneesh
hi is a new MORNDAY”Let everything that has breath praise the Lord. Praise the Lord.
– Psalm 150:6 (NIV)DOT
Thank you Dot, but what it has common with my post?
just my hi for mornday
Mornday? I still can’t get you, but thanks
STILL FRIENDS IS JUST THE MORNDAY WORD OF god LOVE
aha
It really does seem like finding a ‘balance’ is the key in so many things, doesn’t it, Ms. B?!
Seems very true to me!
Yes, it surly does Mr. SIG
If we can learn from the past and move on, then we have made progress. And a balance between giving and taking is what we should strive for.
Thank you Binky. You are absolutely right.
I watched Bitterness eat away at my Mother Sabina.. Wise words my friend xxx Hugs to you xx Sue
We all get some disappointements. But they shouldn’t take off from us joy of life. Life is bringing new possibilities every day. Even the most painful past shouldn’t stop us on the way of being happy.
xx
Yah! Whatchew said!
whatchew?
I don’t know word, but thank you whatever it means 
Whatchew is … “what you” …
YOu’re welcome! LOL 
hehe, I didn’t hear it before. I have to learn a lot
Nooo, you’re fine
that’s just something I write, I don’t know if other people use it in any way but how would you know if you’ve never heard it?
Anyway, I was sure, that it’s something nice
Oh, yes
Definitely…
Thank you
Right on good advice Sabina! Sometimes we need a little shaking up just to remind us not to lose focus.
Have a great day hun. love Traceyxx
Yes, we all need a little shaking time to time.
I was out a whole day, sorry for late answer.
Have a great evening Tracey
xx