We are responsible for who we become
Last days I read many posts about bullying. Maybe there is something in the air… It was my comment to one of those posts http://talinorfali.wordpress.com/2011/11/08/bullying-my-personal-experiences/
I’ve never experienced bullying in real life. Mean, people were trying to offend me, and even bully me, but they were singular examples. Besides I knew my self very well, and I knew, that it was mostly from jealousy, so I didn’t care so much.
Real bully I met on virtual. I was in shock that people can behave like that. That they can be so full of hate and aggression. That person was utterly obsessed with me. Sending to me rude messages from many fake accounts with the most vulgar names, attacking me everywhere, lieing and manipulating my friends to hurt me their hands, and then laughing at me on public from my broken heart etc., etc., etc. I advised that person many times to stop living my life, to forget me, and to start living their own life, and trying to be happy, but it caused only bigger aggression, so I started ignoring that person at all.
I don’t know, why that person is so much obsessed with me. People say, that it’s some man rejected by me in the past looking for revenge. That person was doing everything to get my attention, and to get to me somehow, so maybe they were right. Maybe it’s somebody, who saw in me some of his old enemies, and I had just that bad luck to appear close to that psychomaniac… I don’t know. But it doesn’t matter, people who are bullying others are shame for human race.
I am strong person, and I know my value, so I survived even the most dirty attacks, but it scares me, when I think, what would happen, if they went to somebody weak and vulnerable. They could even kill such person.
I know, that nobody normal, and happy in life, will never bully others. Only people utterly unhappy, and full of complexes are looking for somebody weaker, in their opinion, to bully them, and to feel better that sick way. So we should pity them, and pray for them. For their inner peace, and happiness. Only then they will stop attacking others.
Posted on December 5, 2011, in I couldn't say it better, My Blogs and tagged bully, faith, God, happiness, inner peace, life, love, people, positive attitude, positive energy, relationships, wisdom, wise choices in life. Bookmark the permalink. 7 Comments.