Women are guilty for being raped?!

Today I read the nonsense, that married men sleeping with other women are not guilty,  but guilty are those women for giving them temptations. It reminded me story of some young woman from Afghanistan, which I heard in tv few days ago. She was put to jail for 3 years for being  raped. Yes, exactly, victim of the rape was put to jail, because she was guilty. Her fault was, that she was pretty enough to be raped. The man, who raped her was free. Also free in raping other women.

She is pretty. It means, that you will feel justified when you will rape her or when you will betray your wife for her?

If I steal your money it’ll be your fault, because you have them?

If I steal your car,  it’ll be your fault, because you have so nice car?

If I kidnap your children, it’ll be your fault, because you have so cute children or enough much money to pay me for giving your children back to you?

Every adult person is responsible for his/ her acts.  If you have the problem with self – control, go for some professional help… or like Holy Bible advises – cut that part of your body, which is causing your sins. Amen!

Suplement

It’s very important comment, the voice of women, who knows, what’s going on in some countries. In her country.

“even little girls are being raped and the rapist very conveniently justify themselves. once a 2 years old girl was raped and the rapist blamed the devil saying that it possessed me and made me do it.
where a women could find a shelter from all bad in this world, perhaps nowhere not even their own houses. once a psychologist said “the real home of a women is her grave” . the only place she could be free from all fears.
may God bless us all. Amen!”

Thank you  Komal. God bless you.

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About Sabina Brave

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Posted on December 10, 2011, in My Blogs and tagged , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 34 Comments.

  1. If she got raped why is she in jail. It raises a question that the judiciary system is not in order 🙂

    • Yes, right. In the same jail were women, who rejected men, who wanted to marry them.
      Rapers or killers are walking free, while women are in jails, bcos they wanted to be treated like human beings.
      Zahir, I remember one of your posts about women in Islam, about marriage, about what Quaran says about it. I’m thankful you for that.
      It’s sad, that not only uneducated men are treating women worse than their animals, but also educated men like those judges. And it doesn’t justify them, that they are under big preasure of the society, which justifies beating, or even killing women “in the name of honour”.
      As more men like you will tell the truth, what Quaran says about proper treating women, as less such injustice will happen.

  2. This is the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard…not your posting, but what happen to her.
    If someone rapes someone then the one doing the raping is guilty…We are all responsible for our own actions.

    xo

    • Those people, jurnalists and people fighting for human rights, who heard her story, wanted to help her to find justice, but she
      asked them to not do it, to not give her more troubles. Sight!

      xox

  3. Noooo waaay. OMG this is one of THE stupidest things I have ever heard. There is so something wrong with people.

  4. Mystery – and the other women – it’s not so stupid if you understood the behavior behind this – and you’d have to go way, way, way back in order to find the source of it. It’s no secret that women who have been savagely raped has had the rapist arrested and put on trial – and the creep goes free because a jury of his peers figured that the woman did something to cause the rape – she led him on and all that insane shit and, yeah, she could wind up in jail for filing a false police report after the fact.

    And her only real crime was that she looked good enough to fuck or, if it wasn’t looks that initiated it, she’s a woman; she has pussy and, yes, there are men out there who believe that all coochie is theirs by divine right and yes, if you refuse to give it up, it will be taken – and that’s that.

    If you haven’t done it or know about it, go read this blog: http://lesbianbrooklynite.wordpress.com/2011/12/07/congo-soldiers-explain-why-they-rape/

    Our sensibilities say that this shouldn’t happen; I’ve heard and read of a lot of stuff about the mindset of those who would rape. Sure, there are women out there who will give up the box if you just smile at them but even women who willingly give it up can be raped, can’t they?

    The problem, of course, is with legal systems and what you can prove in court. We know that in a lot of court cases, the woman is subjected to some major invasion of her private life and all the way back to the moment she became sexually active and despite what the laws say, if a woman got raped, well she had to have done something to provoke it… like she was born female. And it’s still pretty much her word against his.

    Defense attorneys will do some unsavory shit to prove her guilty, too, like wearing her favorite little black dress is a crime or having nice boobs makes her a criminal by default or even the fact that she may have said something that could be construed as her leading him on.

    Here’s some hard “truths” about Sabina’s questions:

    She is pretty. It means, that you will feel justified when you will rape her or when you will betray your wife for her? The answer to both of these is yes in the minds of some men and we can justify ANYTHING that we might do in this. You really have no idea how badly we need to fuck and we know you don’t give a shit that we do.

    If I steal your money it’ll be your fault, because you have them? Yes, it is your fault for having something someone else wants. Why should I work for money when I can take yours – you’ve already worked for it.

    If I steal your car, it’ll be your fault, because you have so nice car? Yes. I’ll steal your car just because I could and you were dumb enough to leave it where I can steal it.

    If I kidnap your children, it’ll be your fault, because you have so cute children or enough much money to pay me for giving your children back to you? Yes. If you love them, you’ll pay anything to get them back, won’t you?

    Not that it does any good, but this is how it kinda goes: I see a woman and the biological imperative to fuck combines with the testosterone in my system to make me want to fuck her. I ask her if I can do it to her; she says no, get lost, asshole. I walk away, dejected and rejected but the urge to have her is still there and raging like the worst storm imaginable; this is chemistry in action like you’d never believe and if you think it’s always a two-way street, well, you’re very naive. Then I think, fuck, women are here to be fucked by men; they were put here for our use and that’s really the only thing they’re good for… and the girl in the picture gets raped because my “logic” says I have the right given to me by God to take her just because I want to take her.

    Doesn’t make sense, does it? Our sensibilities say that in this situation, if she says no, I just walk away and find a woman who will say yes and, short of that, go find a prostitute because she’ll always say yes to money (but, wait, they get raped, too, don’t they?) and if that’s too risky – she might be a cop – well, time to take matters into my own hands – literally.

    When women accuse us of thinking with our dicks, they’re a lot more right than they know. The imperative built into all men is something women can’t get their heads around and simply because they’re not as driven as we are – has to do with testosterone; we have 20% or more than women do and it’s some really potent stuff.

    Men do get off on the power of raping a woman… but that’s not why men rape and I recently read a few things that suggests that men rape out of frustration because their levels of testosterone – probably off the charts – is fiercely compelling them to do something that women rarely allow to happen. Doesn’t make it right but also doesn’t change the fact that it happens either.

    Sorry for the length of this, Sabina…

    • After all, what you wrote, I have to say, that I really don’t understand men…
      There was some movie with Jodie Foster. She was raped by group of men, bcos she was drinking bear, playing billard, and laughting.
      When she was screaming “NO”, they took it like teasing with them. She went long way of humilitations to prove, that she
      wasn’t “guilty”.
      When woman says NO it mostly means NO. It’s not any teasing. If it’s teasing, and man will go away, it’ll be woman’s lost.
      And please don’t say, that we were born to be “fucked” or “used”, bcos it’s utterly humilitating. I prefere to be loved. Sex should be a part of relationship, not everything there, and in the bed womn shouldn’t be used for man’s pleasure only. We are not real dolls, but human beings.

      • I know that, Sabina – I’m civilized and in control of myself. Sad part is the ugly truth: That’s how some men look at women; you think love and romance, some men just follow the urge. In this, I don’t understand why women “wonder” why this happens to them and then, when the truth is told, they get even more upset (but I really do know why). There’s what should be – an idea; then there’s the cold hard fact: You have something we want and we will do every and anything to get it.

        Mystery seems to think there’s a remedy for it… and smarter people than us have been trying to remedy this so, sweetie, what have you come up with?

  5. There’s a remedy for this. That’s all I’m saying.

  6. even little girls are being raped and the rapist very conveniently justify themselves. once a 2 years old girl was raped and the rapist blamed the devil saying that it possessed me and made me do it.
    where a women could find a shelter from all bad in this world, perhaps nowhere not even their own houses. once a psychologist said “the real home of a women is her grave” . the only place she could be free from all fears.
    may God bless us all. Amen!

    • I appreciate your words. I know, that horrible things are going on for woman. I know also, that men from those countries lie about what’s going on there.
      Please don’t lose hope, Komal. Here in Europe also women did’t have rights. In Switzerland they got rights for voting in 1976. All the world is changing. I wish you to see changes in your country too. Only mean men are humilitating women. Never let them bring you down.Even if you have to do, what they want, stay proud woman inside. They can’t beat your soul. There you are the master.
      Only mean men are humilitating women. Man of honour will never do that. Even if their family is forcing them to do evil things to their wife or doughter, they’ll chose Allah. Mean good, not evil.

  7. How can a woman be raped, and put in prison for looking
    too good. She is in prison for being raped, I don’t understand
    that one and I never will either…

    It is absolutely unbelievable…

    Androgoth XXx

    • Her rapist to avoid responsibility told judge, that he wanted to marry that woman, but she rejected. So judge said, that rapist had good intention, and she was dirty not him, bcos she had sex with the man, who she didn’t want to marry.
      I don’t understand it too. It’s beyond my imagiation, that there are countries, where such things can happen. It’s shame for human race.

      Thanks for commenting 🙂
      XXx

      • I think the worst part is, is that this kind of thing happens in Europe too but men often get away with it by blaming the woman, but in reality if a woman says no at any point then that means ‘NO’ and the man should retreat his advances, I don’t agree with some of the commenting on this issue as it appears to say that men can always take what they wish regardless of what a woman thinks. To me that is just absolute twaddle and anyone that thinks that way is an ass…

        Hey, changing the subject here are you being
        good because Santa is watching Sabina? 🙂 lol

        Androgoth XXx

  8. There is so much injustice against women around the world especially in those countries where woman are treated as second class citizens.. where they hold no rights at all…. Woman are still stoned to death in some countries..
    But Sabina.. the Feminine energies are returning to this world.. The days of Rule and Male control are slowly ending as Compassion is entering our energy systems and the Truth is coming out how corrupt some of our society is.. Male Dominance is not as it once was long ago… So I add your prayer which you blogged later…. As I pray for change as we let the Ego of mankind go… to be replaced by care, love and compassion… Justice and Peace..
    Love and Blessings to you Sabina.. xx

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