Love and hate
Some time ago my friend Mystery wrote about search engines on her blog. So I started paying attention on mine. I found there in the past: “sabi is evil”, “why did Sabina hurt me”, “sabi nudity”, “i’m a cyber slut”, etc. I had no doubt, that it’s some man rejected by me in the past, who hated me because of that. I can understand his hurt ego, but I can’t accept his attitude. I can’t accept all those fake accounts females and males, from which he’s insulting me, and people dear to me. He doesn’t want to see, that an obsession of spoiling my life is spoiling his own the most.
Last weeks something changed in search engines. I’m finding there: “i’m in love with you” (very often), “i love you more than anything”, “i love you more, than the air i breath” etc. I like this change.
I knew, that only big love could cause so big hate. But it doesn’t justify him. He knows very well, that I’m not evil at all. I’m only leaving people, with whom I don’t feel well. And I am not able to tolerate any kind of aggression. I don’t want to be with a man, who will want to kill me from jealousy or because of somebody’s plottering. I can’t tolerate also lying and cheating. If there is no honesty in relationship, there will be no love too.
My friends ask me ” Why do you care for such people?”… because I don’t like hurting anybody. No matter how evil they are. Because I know, that mostly behind big evilness there is big unhappiness, behind big aggression – big pain. For example bullies are mostly kids unaccepted and unloved by their parents. They bully others, because they are bullied in their own home, where they should feel safe. But it doesn’t justify them.
We have the power to create our life, to make it better. We have the power to break mad circle of unhealthy relationships. At least we should try.
Love and peace.
Posted on December 27, 2011, in My Blogs and tagged being yourself, faith, learning, life, love, people, positive attitude, positive thinking, possitive energy, relationships, self-knowledge and self-acceptance, wisdom, woman and man. Bookmark the permalink. 16 Comments.