Be wiser not bitter

No matter, how much you’ve been hurt, you should step into new relationship wiser not bitter. It can take a time to trust somebody new, but you can’t blame  them for somebody else’s sins.

Everybody is different, and most of them deserve a chance.  But don’t stay in relationship with somebody, who tries to bring you down, no matter reason, who has no respect for you, and your feelings. They need therapy, but you don’t have to be their doctor.

You deserve to be happy the same as your partner. It should be balance between giving and taking. Be sure, that when you say “yes” to others, you don’t say “no” to yourself.


About Sabina Brave

special & unique, one in a million ;) theraphist and writer passionate with human nature.

Posted on May 13, 2012, in I couldn't say it better, My Blogs and tagged , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 51 Comments.

  1. This sort of thing happen a lot. One person breaks their trust in a particular area, and they will not let go of it to trust someone else in that area…as if they did to them in the first place…not right, nor fair.
    Hugs xx

  2. As long as the balance is right and
    the feelings are good then all should
    be very nice 🙂 I hope your weekend
    was a wicked one Sabina 🙂

    Androgoth XXx

  3. I totally agree. Let past relationships, particularly the painful ones be 100% past. We can learn from it but should not dwell on it. There are a lot of wonderful things that awaits in the future, including new beginnings and realtionships. Great post!

  4. -podobno ile dajesz tyle dostajesz-nie wiem .
    Tych madrości życiowych można tu wpisać dużo,ale po co kazdy z nas jest inny…..

    • Dobrze by było, gdybyśmy mogli dostawać tyle samo, ile dajemy… Niestety niektórzy potrafią tylko brać. Pewnie słyszałaś o typach psychologicznych dawcy i biorcy?
      Miłej reszty dnia 🙂

  5. The scars would take us a long way too… isnt it?? 🙂

  6. hi is a new MORNDAY”Let everything that has breath praise the Lord. Praise the Lord.

    – Psalm 150:6 (NIV)DOT

  7. It really does seem like finding a ‘balance’ is the key in so many things, doesn’t it, Ms. B?!
    Seems very true to me!

  8. If we can learn from the past and move on, then we have made progress. And a balance between giving and taking is what we should strive for.

  9. I watched Bitterness eat away at my Mother Sabina.. Wise words my friend xxx Hugs to you xx Sue

  10. Right on good advice Sabina! Sometimes we need a little shaking up just to remind us not to lose focus.
    Have a great day hun. love Traceyxx

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