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I believe, that people appear in our life for a reason. They can be blessings or lessons. Both are valuable. I like meeting people, from whom I can learn, thanks whom I can grow spiritually, and intellectually. I had enough luck in life to meet such people.

I am idealist. I don’t understand cruelty, and injustice. It should not happen. World is big enough to people live in peace, and harmony.

I don’t need my friends to be rich, I just need them to be true. I don’t need to communicate with them daily, I just need that feeling of safety, that I can rely on them always, and that they can accept me the way I am. If I give my friendship, it’ll be for ever. No matter time or distance. In other case it will not be true. I treat people, and feelings serious. 

4 ever friends

Life is a journey – taste of life by Paolo Coelho… and me :)

“And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”  It’s my very favourite quote. From “Alchemist” by Paolo Coelho.   “So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.”


“The simple things are also the most extraordinary things, and only the wise can see them.” “Alchemist” is my very favourite book. I like it because of its simplicity. Not many words, but with big value. I tried to use that rule in my blog. There are not many words. I shouldn’t judge their value, but readers.

“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” I believe, that dreams can come true. even those the most impossible. But we have to really believe it. I experienced miracles in life. I would even experience more if I had more faith, that everything is possible, when we really desire something.  “Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second’s encounter with God and with eternity.”

“One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving.” I agree. We don’t need a reason to love anybody. It just happens. Without a reason. Once some doctor of physics tried to convince me, that love happens because of some laws of physics. He was scientist, so he tried to find explanation in science, why people fall in love with somebody, when there are many more pretty, smarter, and more interesting people arround. It  can be physics, chemistry or just unknown. But in fact do we need scientific explanations for everything? I don’t think so.

“Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.” Oh, yeah! I know it very well. And I have to confess, that I am also a sinner. It’ s amazing fact, that we mostly know all answers, what other people should to do with their life, but we don’t have any idea, what we should to do with our own.

“Remember that wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure.” It’s old saying, not Coelho’s own idea, but I like it alot. If we love money, there will be our heart. If we love somebody, he will be our treasure.

“We are travelers on a cosmic journey,stardust,swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.”  Very often moment can decide about our whole life, about which path we will go. So catch a while, when it lasts. It wont repeat anymore.

“Every blessing ignored becomes a curse.” Sometimes we are too blind to see opportunities, which fate is giving to us… and then we regret whole life, that we lost it.

“To realize one’s destiny is a person’s only obligation.” Going against destiny is making people unhappy. When we can find, what our destiny is, we can find a way of being happy in life.

 “If you can concentrate always on the present, you’ll be a happy man. Life is the moment we are living now.”  Learn from the past, hope for future, but live in the present. And it’s enough for now 🙂

Life is a journey – taste of life by Paolo Coelho… and me :)

“And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”  It’s my very favourite quote. From “Alchemist” by Paolo Coelho.   “So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.”


“The simple things are also the most extraordinary things, and only the wise can see them.” “Alchemist” is my very favourite book. I like it because of its simplicity. Not many words, but with big value. I tried to use that rule in my blog. There are not many words. I shouldn’t judge their value, but readers.

“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” I believe, that dreams can come true. even those the most impossible. But we have to really believe it. I experienced miracles in life. I would even experience more if I had more faith, that everything is possible, when we really desire something.  “Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second’s encounter with God and with eternity.”

“One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving.” I agree. We don’t need a reason to love anybody. It just happens. Without a reason. Once some doctor of physics tried to convince me, that love happens because of some laws of physics. He was scientist, so he tried to find explanation in science, why people fall in love with somebody, when there are many more pretty, smarter, and more interesting people arround. It  can be physics, chemistry or just unknown. But in fact do we need scientific explanations for everything? I don’t think so.

“Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.” Oh, yeah! I know it very well. And I have to confess, that I am also a sinner. It’ s amazing fact, that we mostly know all answers, what other people should to do with their life, but we don’t have any idea, what we should to do with our own.

“Remember that wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure.” It’s old saying, not Coelho’s own idea, but I like it alot. If we love money, there will be our heart. If we love somebody, he will be our treasure.

“We are travelers on a cosmic journey,stardust,swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.”  Very often moment can decide about our whole life, about which path we will go. So catch a while, when it lasts. It wont repeat anymore.

“Every blessing ignored becomes a curse.” Sometimes we are too blind to see opportunities, which fate is giving to us… and then we regret whole life, that we lost it.

“To realize one’s destiny is a person’s only obligation.” Going against destiny is making people unhappy. When we can find, what our destiny is, we can find a way of being happy in life.

 “If you can concentrate always on the present, you’ll be a happy man. Life is the moment we are living now.”  Learn from the past, hope for future, but live in the present. And it’s enough for now 🙂

Our destiny – we can know it the best in extreme situations

My friend inspired me for writing this article. She told me some story. About fire, which burnt all her house. The only thing, which she saved was album with pictures. From unknown reasons 1st thought about what to save from fire was that album.

Mostly when we think, what we would like to safe in a case of fire, there are different things. Documents, money, expensive things, clothes. But in extreme situations we behave instinctively. There is no time for thinking.

I remember some extreme situation from my childhood. I was about 10. I was playing with my younger brothers, and some boy from neighbourhood. There was a big hole in the ground. Full of dark water. We came close to see, what was there. The ground close to hole was slippery. Boy from neighbourhood suddenly dropped to that hole. It was cold autumn. We all had warm wool  jackets with hoods. It was good in that case.

My brothers, like paralysed, were watching a boy, who was drowned. They couldn’t move or even scream. I ordered them like officer from army – “Catch me from back, and keep me strongly!” They listen to my order. I caught fast that boy’s hood of jacket. I ordered my brothers – “Now drag me back as strong as you can!” Soon boy, all wet and almost dead from fear, was on the ground. My brothers still couldn’t say anything. I took that boy to his house. His mother was in shock, when I told her, that her son was almost drowned.

Mostly I am calm and quiet person. I don’t seem to be a type of strong leader. Maybe because that my ability was reduced by orthodox father. I was a girl, so I should be quiet and polite. Leadership was for boys. But that extreme situation showed, that I was much more predestined for leadership, than my brothers. I kept cold blood in danger, and I saved that boy’s life. But I didn’t feel like hero. Even now I don’t think about it like that. It was normal behaviour for me.

It’s sad, when parents are not able to see clear their kids abilities. That they are forcing them to be, what they want them to be, not for what they are predestined. It can break their kids life. Wise parents should give a lot of time for their kids, trying to recognise, what will be the best for their children. What will make them happy in life. Their kids, not themselves.