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Dancing in the rain

When we are kids we can enjoy everything, and every small thing can be an adventure, a reason to smile, to laugh, to be happy.  Try to keep that inner child till the end of your life, and you’ll be able to find a beauty and joy even in the smallest things, and you’ll be happy in life. Happy people look younger, it’s proven fact 😉

I decided to go with kids by bicycle to the forest.  I mean kids from my work. We were planning that trip a week ago. But when I came there yesterday, we couldn’t start, because children, one by one, had to go back home for something, what they forgot. Children have that amazing ability of forgetting about everything:) When they all came finally back, we could hear thunders. But from distance. That’s why I decided to risk, and to go.

When we were almost in the forest dark clouds came from nowhere, and it started raining. I thought about waiting under some tree untill it’ll stop raining, but I was afraid of thunders, so we decided to go back as fast as possible.

When we were on the street, big drops of the rain were dropping on us. They were really big. But also very warm. When we were finally under the safe roof, we all were wet… and soon it stopped raining 🙂

For kids it was an adventure. A story to talk about with other kids. All were wet, and dirty from the dust, but laughing from that. Soon warm sunbeams dry them, and we could play in the park.


Expectations hurt…

Everybody heard about, that expectations hurt, and most of us even agree with that… but how many of us can stop expectations? I reduced them, but not eliminated them at all. I think, that it’s almost impossible.

Long time ago I had a friend. I expected a lot from him. and he knew about it. After a time I realised, that I idealised him to much. And probably he was tired from my big expectations.  I guess, that he also had big expectations. And I couldn’t satisfy them.

Since some time I reduced my expectations towards people, and I am much more happy.  When somebody is trying to hurt me, I don’t care so much like in the past. But when somebody is unexpectedly nice, it’s nice surprise.

Don’t expect to much from people, and you will get less hurts, if they disappoint you. And you will be much more happy, when they give you something good.

Hope for the best, and pray for that, but don’t expect to much.  And you will get serenity, and you will be much more happy.

Don’t expect! Don’t predict! Be like a child, and just enjoy every moment of life.