Time to time I’m reading funny stuffs about Facebook. Actually they are “serious” stuffs, which make me giggling. Why? Because I really don’t understand, why people are exciting so much because of some social site. I thought, that only real life can give real excitement. But reading all those rants about Facebook I’m losing that sureness.
I have account on Facebook, but I’m almost not going there. I’m only clicking on WordPress button “post on Facebook”, and thanks that my Facebook wall isn’t empty. hehe
I can’t understand people, who live on Facebook like it was the only life they have. Maybe because I have real life. Not excellent, but my own, and good enough to don’t need to replace it with virtual. My virtual psycho bunny boiler can’t understand it. Maybe because virtual life is the only life they have.
When Marc Zuckerberg created Facebook, he thought about place for real people. But like many other social sites it became for many people a place for creating second life, which has nothing common with real.
I met on virtual, e.g. on Facebook, people, who were making accounts of nonexisted relatives, friends, lovers, and even enemies, and who were talking to themselves, flirting with themselves, and fighting with themselves. Just to get a bit of attention, and to make their life a bit more exciting. I tried to understand them, but I fed up with them. I’ll never understand such people.
I’ll never understand pathological liars. I mean, I can understand, why they create second life, where they can be, what they can’t be in real, but I can’t understand, that they go so deep in their lies, that they are losing completely contact with reality.
I can’t imagine, that virtual life could replace for me real life. That chatting on Facebook could replace real meetings, real conversations with real people. What can be better, than sitting face to face, watching emotions on faces, enjoying smiles, laugh or arguing? Ok, we can watch each other in cam, but the touch, the smell, the taste we can feel only in real.
I need to feel life with all senses. Only then it’s really exciting.
Do you want to get something real? Go to your account settings on Facebook, deactivate your account or accounts, and start living real life. 🙂
There are a lot of slaves, who don’t know, that they are slaves. Slaves of money, slaves of society. Not able for living free. And nobody can free them, as long as they don’t want to see, that they are slaves. As long as they have no will to be free people.
Yeah, nobody will be able to help us, if we don’t see that we have the problem. Nobody will be able to change our life, if there is no will in us to change it.
In the past my friend asked me: “Why you fight always, when somebody irritates you? Virtual is merely virtual. You shouldn’t care so much for nobodies.”
I went long way to become, who I am now, to get inner peace, and to stop caring for silly things. I like, who I became, and I won’t let anybody to take me back to the past. I was already there.
Don’t let anybody to involve you in their silly games. Don’t lose your energy for nothing. Fight only for things really worth it.
Really strong people don’t have to scream at anybody, don’t have to make their voice loud. They whisper words and make people listen to them.
Authority can’t be built on fear, but on respect. Valuable people will never try to scare you, and then to control your fears, they’ll rather work over getting your respect by being honest and respectful.
Whenever somebody is rude for you, think about them like about utterly unhappy people, who are not able to get anything in life good, and honest way. Who wish to see other people down, because they themselves can’t reach higher. Probably somebody hurt them deeply in the past, but it doesn’t justify them. When they behave aggressively, ask them a question “What’s your problem dear?” Maybe they just have bad day. But when they continue to be rude, imagine them in ridiculous pink underwear with feathers, and smile. 🙂
Two weeks ago I heard fire alarm in the middle of the night. I thought: “It can’t be a fire, they are rather going to some car accident. ” I didn’t remember any house burnt close to me. Sometime fire in forest, some other buildings burnt, but not houses… But I was wrong. There was about -20 that night. And some family lost the roof over their heads. It was horrible. It made me think, how futile material world is. And how silly we are caring so much for things, which we can lose in one moment.
They got money, and help, and soon they’ll can live there again, so don’t worry. But if you have roof over head, food in refrigerator, clothes to wear, and wood to your stove, be thankful for that, because there are people on the Earth, who don’t have it. Great car, big tv, swimming pool behind the house are nice, but really so much important? Think about it.
I used this picture already, but it’s good moment to remind it.