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Bullying killed her

I read this story today on my friend’s wall on fb.

“Bullying Killed Her.
There and then, Carmen decided that she couldn’t take the bullying any longer. She planned to stay behind, that evening, after school, and tell her teacher what had been happening. Unfortunately, her decision came too late to save her life.

After lunch, her teacher announced that the school was holding a fire drill. When the alarm sounded, Carmen and the other students filed out of the classroom and assembled in the yard outside. As the teachers read out the roll call, the gang of five girls decided that this was a great opportunity to embarrass Carmen in front of the whole school during the fire drill. They moved over to where Carmen was standing, near a sewer drain, and began crowding the poor girl, getting in her face and nudging her towards the open manhole.

They pushed her and she tripped over and fell head-first down the manhole. When they saw her falling, the girls started giggling and when Carmen’s name was called out, they shouted “She’s down in the sewer!”

All of the other students began laughing. But when the teachers looked down the manhole and saw Carmen’s body lying at the bottom in the muck and the poop, the laughter abruptly stopped. Her head was twisted around at an odd angle and her face was covered in blood. Worse still, she wasn’t moving. There was nothing any of the teachers could do for her. Carmen was dead. When the police arrived and went down into the sewer, they determined that she had broken her neck. Her face had been torn off when she hit the ladder on the way down and her neck snapped when she landed on her head on the concrete at the bottom.

The police hauled Carmen’s body out of the sewer and sent her to the mortuary. Everyone had to stay behind after school while the police questioned all of Carmen’s classmates. The five girls lied to the police, saying they had witnessed Carmen falling down the sewer. The police believed the girls and Carmen Winstead’s death was ruled an accident and the case was closed. Everyone thought that was the last they would hear of Carmen Winstead, but they were wrong.

Months later, Carmen’s classmates began receiving strange e-mails on their MySpaces. The e-mails were titled “They Pushed Her” and claimed that Carmen hadn’t really fallen down the sewer, she had been pushed. The e-mails also warned that the guilty people should own up and take responsibility for their crime. If they didn’t there would be horrible consequences. Most people dismissed the e-mails as a hoax, but others were not so sure.

A few days later, one of the girls who pushed Carmen down the sewer was at home taking a shower, when she heard a strange cackling laugh. It seemed to be coming from the drain. The girl started to freak out and ran out of the bathroom. That night, the girl said goodnight to her mom and went to sleep. Five hours later, her mom was awoken in the middle of the night, by a loudnoise that resounded throughout the house. She ran into her daughter’s room, only to find it empty. There was no trace of the girl. The worried mother called the police and when they arrived, they conducted a search of the area. Eventually, they discovered the girl’s grisly remains.

Her corpse was lying in the sewer, covered in muck and poop. Her neck was broken and her face missing. It had been completely torn off. One by one, all of the girls who pushed Carmen that day were found dead. They had all been killed in exactly the same way and were all found at exactly the same spot. In the sewer at the bottom of the same uncovered manhole where Carmen had met her doom. But the killing didn’t stop there. More and more of Carmen’s former classmates were found dead. It seemed that anyone who didn’t believe that Carmen had been pushed, was eventually found down in the sewer with their necks broken and their faces torn off.

They say that Carmen’s ghost is still on the rampage, hunting down anyone who doesn’t believe her story. According to the legend, Carmen will get you, whetherit’s from a toilet, a shower, a sink or a drain. When you go to sleep, you’ll wake up in the sewer, in complete darkness, paralyzed, unable to move, hearing cackling laughter all around you. Then, as you scream in horror, Carmen will come and tear your face off.

So be careful who you bully, because you just might find yourself on the receiving end of the curse of Carmen Winstead.

FACT: About two months later, 16-year-old David Gregory read this post and didn’t repost it. When he went to take a shower, he heard laughter, started freaking out, and ran to his computer to repost it. He said goodnight to his mom and went to sleep, but five hours later, his mom woke up in the middle of the night from a loud noise and David was gone. A few hours later, the police found him in the sewer, with a broken neck and the skin on his face peeled off.

Even Google her name – you’ll find this to be true.
Repost this if you’re against bullying.”

This story is not to scare anybody, but to show, that not only bullies are guilty, but also those of us, who don’t react. 

Women are guilty for being raped?!

Today I read the nonsense, that married men sleeping with other women are not guilty,  but guilty are those women for giving them temptations. It reminded me story of some young woman from Afghanistan, which I heard in tv few days ago. She was put to jail for 3 years for being  raped. Yes, exactly, victim of the rape was put to jail, because she was guilty. Her fault was, that she was pretty enough to be raped. The man, who raped her was free. Also free in raping other women.

She is pretty. It means, that you will feel justified when you will rape her or when you will betray your wife for her?

If I steal your money it’ll be your fault, because you have them?

If I steal your car,  it’ll be your fault, because you have so nice car?

If I kidnap your children, it’ll be your fault, because you have so cute children or enough much money to pay me for giving your children back to you?

Every adult person is responsible for his/ her acts.  If you have the problem with self – control, go for some professional help… or like Holy Bible advises – cut that part of your body, which is causing your sins. Amen!

Suplement

It’s very important comment, the voice of women, who knows, what’s going on in some countries. In her country.

“even little girls are being raped and the rapist very conveniently justify themselves. once a 2 years old girl was raped and the rapist blamed the devil saying that it possessed me and made me do it.
where a women could find a shelter from all bad in this world, perhaps nowhere not even their own houses. once a psychologist said “the real home of a women is her grave” . the only place she could be free from all fears.
may God bless us all. Amen!”

Thank you  Komal. God bless you.

It’s not my world or power of smile

It was my comment to another post, but I decided to post it here too.

Primordial people are fighting with hands, with physical abuse, because they are not smart enough to use brains. But there are also smart manipulators using emotional abuse. I don’t know, which kind of wounds is worse…

When I was 14 some  girl from my class attacked me with fury from jealousy of some boy. She was so full of aggression, that she was trying to beat me. When she set on me, I was laughing only like crazy trying to not get hurts. All that situation was utterly ridiculous for me. Soon boys from our class took her away.
By the way her kids are also full of aggression. She has always problems with them. Once I tried even to help her to open eyes, and see big problem growing in her family, but she didn’t listen… and soon she got much more problems with kids.

Till now I pity people, who can’t solve problems like normal people. When somebody is attacking me full of hate and aggression, he/she can’t scare me at all. The only feeling I have for such people is pity.

Once at university somebody tried to offend me. I only looked at that person saying nothing, and they went away. Later my friend told me, that my sight was so full of scorn, that it could kill.
Since long time I’m not using that weapon. I’m using power of smiles. :) When somebody tries to offend me, I’m asking nicely – “What’s your problem dear?” When they are able to see, that there is something wrong in their attitude we can talk. When they are keeping insults, I’m not wasting my time for them anymore.  I am ready to talk with them, but when they will grow up to wise discussion. On arguments, not insults. Once I went down to somebody’s level, but it will never repeat. I tasted how it’s to be them, and thank you, it’s not my world.

Some boy was bullying my younger brother at school. That boy was much much higher than him. My brother was peaceful person. Not fighting at all. He didn’t tell anything our parents or me. Some friend told me, what’s going on every day in the train, when we were going to school. My brother was 15, I was 18. Soon I caught that boy. I told him to leave my brother alone. 1st he was laughing, looking at me from hight, but then he stopped. He didn’t bully my bro anymore.

Aggression can’t scare me. As more madly somebody attacks me, as lower they are for me on the ladder of evolution. I wont fight with jelly – fish :)

I know, that scorn isn’t good feeling. That’s why I work over finding better ways of solving problems with aggressive people. But mostly it’s enough to not let them scare you. As long as you are not afraid of them, they have no power over you.

Supplement

With time I learned, that sometimes going away is better, than fighting, and that it doesn’t mean weakness, but wisdom.

You are the master of your life

You are the master of your life. You are the one, who should make decisions and choices. People are going in and out from your life. You are there all the time, since the birth to the death,  so make it the best you can.

You are the one, who can make your life heaven or hell. Don’t let anybody to make you only an actor in  your own life, and to make you taking only the role in somebody else’s play.